There’s an old Chinese saying “The person who seeks revenge should dig two graves.” I thought of this as I read a story about a man attempting to publicly shame his cheating wife and her lover. He plastered very detailed fliers about the affair around the neighborhood, as well as at the wife’s lover’s workplace and church. You can see the flier below, on which I have added the appropriate response by community members to a public shaming. Because you never want to let The Humiliators win.
Start digging, pal. And please get help.