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Married to an Identical Twin

August 17, 2016
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Marilyn & Carolyn or Carolyn & Marilyn?

Marilyn & Carolyn or Carolyn & Marilyn?

Carolyn, my significant other, is an identical twin. And while she and her sister are easy to tell apart now, that has not always been the case.

Distinguishing which is which in photos before the age of 10 is difficult, and before the age of 5, impossible.

You can imagine how challenging it would have been for their parents to figure out if they were addressing Marilyn or Carolyn. They solved this problem by not even trying. Instead, they just called both girls “Sissy.” That way they avoided the embarrassing, inevitable “I’m not Carolyn; I’m Marilyn” response. To this day Carolyn calls Marilyn “Sissy,” and Marilyn calls Carolyn “Sissy.” When they exchange gifts, all of the tags say, “To Sissy. From Sissy.”

As in Disney movies, the twins took advantage of others’ befuddlement. In high school, Carolyn took both her own and Sissy’s Latin classes, while in return Sissy doubled up on P.E. classes.

One time, they also exploited their identicalness in the romance department. When they were 15, Marilyn had been ardently hoping for a date with the captain of the football team, and, finally, he called. But Sissy was violently sick with a stomach virus. Determined not to lose her chance, she said “yes” and then began pleading with Carolyn to substitute-date for her. Carolyn raised multiple common-sense objections, but Sissy prevailed. Marilyn assured her, “You don’t have to do anything but hold my place. Just be sure to get me a second date. Do whatever it takes to get me a second date.” As you might expect, the quarterback, famed for how good he was with his hands, spent all night making passes at Carolyn. Carolyn, for her part, repeatedly deflected them. After his several fumbled attempts, the QB said in exasperation, “You’re a lot more shy than I thought you’d be.” To which Carolyn replied, “I don’t do any of that on a first date.” When he asked, “What about a second date?” Carolyn told him encouragingly, “We’ll see.” The footballer did indeed call again. Marilyn returned early from this second datelooking out of sortsmarched right to Carolyn and said, “Exactly what did you say to him? He was all over me.”

Now I know what you’re wondering: “Since the twins have a history of being willing and able to impersonate one another, aren’t you concerned they might trick you?” The answer is “no.” These days it’s pretty easy to tell them apart . . . unless they’re on a car trip together and one of them calls me. You see, they often switch phones. If Carolyn is driving, I know that Sissy might call me on Carolyn’s phone, so instead of my usual “Hi, Baby”I just say “Hi,” and if the other person just says “Hi” in response, I keep my words as neutral as possible till I can figure out whether I’m talking to Sissy number one or Sissy number two. I also have to be very careful when Sissy visits because she’s always wearing Carolyn’s clothes and the twins are of course the same height and body build, so when I’m coming up behind my wife to give her a surprise embrace . . . Well, you get the idea.

Here’s the thing: The state of North Carolina, where I reside, sets a lot of store by exactly what’s written on birth certificates. And Carolyn and Marilyn’s parents couldn’t tell them apartdidn’t even try to keep straight who was who. So who knows if when the infants learned their names, they learned them correctly? I figure there’s a 50-50 chance that the woman I’m married to, who calls herself Carolyn, is actually legally Marilyn by birth. And that’s howas far-fetched as it might soundit’s even odds that I’m living in sin, am not actually married to my own wife . . . but instead am legally weddedto my sister-in-law.

 

My thanks to Wildacres Writers Retreat, where this piece was written.

Bill Spencer

Bill Spencer's humor writing has been published by Funny Times, Narrative magazine, Reader's Digest, The Sun, The Inconsequential, Clever magazine, Defenestration, The Short Humour Site, Hobo Pancakes, and Nuthouse. He has also published scholarly articles on the novels of Cormac McCarthy and is co-author of an unproduced screenplay, "Angel Pays a Visit." He lives in a cabin in the mountains of North Carolina with his wife, artist-poet Carolyn Elkins.

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19 Responses to Married to an Identical Twin

  1. August 24, 2016 at 6:29 am

    That goes from “Dear Penthouse, I never thought this would happen to me” to the complicated reality pretty quickly.

    Mark, Bill here. The REPLY button is no longer available on this post, so I’m responding in an “edit.” You are most perceptive. (P.S. Why would anybody address a letter to the top floor of an upscale apartment building?)

  2. Bill Y Ledden
    August 20, 2016 at 4:50 am

    Calling both girls ‘Sissy,” was a move of pure genius. If you were also an identical twin, the sheer, mass confusion would have been electric.

    • Bill Spencer
      August 20, 2016 at 5:44 am

      In a perfect world, Bill Y, YOU are my twin.

  3. August 20, 2016 at 2:02 am

    Bill, I loved it. What a funny piece and did I once meet Marilyn when I stayed at yours and Carolyn’s cabin years ago? Or was that just a twin dream?

    Johnny Young

    • Bill Spencer
      August 20, 2016 at 8:17 am

      We probably forced you to look at many twin photos.

      (Congratulations, Johnny, on how great your Hollywood acting career is going.)

  4. August 18, 2016 at 10:31 am

    I’d say it matters not
    Whether called Marilyn or Carolyn
    It’s the fond embrace
    from behind
    that might get you in water boilin’
    Be oh so careful, Bill Spencer!

    • Bill Spencer
      August 18, 2016 at 11:12 am

      This advice is not bad; it could be verse.

  5. August 18, 2016 at 6:36 am

    Sounds a bit duplicitous to me, Bill, and definitely not a marriage for sissies.

    • Bill Spencer
      August 18, 2016 at 7:26 am

      Everyone’s one of a kind
      And that’s really nice
      But my wife’s one of a kind
      —Twice.

  6. August 18, 2016 at 1:07 am

    My gosh! My gosh! Or is it the other way around?

    • Bill Spencer
      August 18, 2016 at 5:24 am

      Exactly!

  7. August 17, 2016 at 7:40 pm

    At least you can never say you don’t have interesting problems.

    • Bill Spencer
      August 17, 2016 at 8:18 pm

      Even a DNA test won’t help.

  8. August 17, 2016 at 5:23 pm

    I love how they have rhyming names too! That photo is adorable. Are you sure you live with the right Sissy?

    • Bill Spencer
      August 17, 2016 at 6:35 pm

      I love the Sissy I’m living with; I’m just not sure North Carolina won’t challenge whether I’m married to her.

  9. John Spencer
    August 17, 2016 at 11:17 am

    I am sure God has a great sense of humor and will show you mercy laughing His head off! I knew that you would post a humorous article on being married to a twin sister but now I don’t know her legal name! Does that mean I have a 50% chance of being correct calling your wife, Marilyn?! Fortunately, I cannot go wrong calling your wife Sissy!

    • Bill Spencer
      August 17, 2016 at 1:06 pm

      It’s good to have a brother who has an in with the Lord. When St. Peter stops me at the gate, I’m dropping your name.

  10. August 17, 2016 at 10:32 am

    Hahaha! Who knew? Thanks for this Bill. Lovely to see you here in SC last week!
    Rhea

    • Bill Spencer
      August 18, 2016 at 7:33 am

      Thank you for reading and commenting, Rhea. Great to see you, too. I wish you much success in your teaching this year. Teach those younguns a thing or two!



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